HATE ME, LIKE ME? ....DEAL WITH IT!!

We all seem to be concerned about what other people say about us, we seem to be put under pressure for what is being said about how we live our lives, the way we dress, our looks, how we speak, etc, but do we really have to? It really is not necessary to act this way, life is yours, why matter about what is being said about you? You are a living human, so people should talk about you.

It is time we put our lives first and show the 'haters' that we were not brought into this world by default, and start showing off the "I AM" attitude". People will always badmouth you because they know that they cannot beat you or be better than you, so the best thing to do is to keep on shining in whatever you do. Well...jealousy does exist, so them talking about you behind your back shows that you are doing something good and that they envy you, but it's really hard for them to admit it. Their only solution is to try by all means to pull you down, your solution is just to beat them in their own tricks, and show them who you really are and what you are made of.

People will pretend to like you, knowing very well that they are aiming to destroy your life. These are those people who will show you the false smile, cry with you when you are crying and drop you when you are in trouble and sneak around telling people about your problems. This happens because we all seem to have the 'heart' of trusting anyone easily. So, it is in our hands to be aware of these "snakes" and be prepared to 'kill' them with their own poison the moment they strike. People will like you because they know that there's something they want from you, and the moment they get it you'll never see nor hear from them anymore. So, do not be proud that most people like you, not all of them actually like you since for some it is just pure pretense, all you have to do is to watch out.

People will hate you for your success, looks, confidence, personality, excellency and actually for being "you"(whether you are talkative, talented, straight, homosexual, etc).So, they find all of these aspects very destructive and since they cannot handle or deal with them they turn to hate you and start belittling you, saying demeaning things, discouraging you and try hard to manipulate you by turning all the good stuff you do into bad things. That really is the result of jealousy. Through it all, just keep on killing it and they will eventually suffocate.

Just live your life, fulfil your dreams and ignore all the negativity that is being thrown towards you.   Remember; GOD BROUHGT YOU INTO THIS WORLD FOR A PURPOSE!!

By: Jackie Mantosi